Is it right for my girlfreind to search my mothers marrige records (Public Records)?
The Wired Computer Guy asked:
My girl says that she searched looking for my name in this public marrige records for the county and she found my moms marrige date and brides and grooms name and i don’t know if this is cool or not she says there public so should i have a problem with this
My girl says that she searched looking for my name in this public marrige records for the county and she found my moms marrige date and brides and grooms name and i don’t know if this is cool or not she says there public so should i have a problem with this
PLEASE HELP
trigunmarksman posted: 02 Feb at 7:01 am
I don’t see the big deal, just seems like she is curious and maybe she is giving you a subtle hint. Cough Marriage
kris55a posted: 02 Feb at 4:28 pm
she sounds extremely nosey to me……….
i’d say something to her.
gluckstadt_randy posted: 05 Feb at 5:08 am
whats the big deal..it is public records
sometimes posted: 05 Feb at 12:48 pm
Well it’s kind of obsessive for her to do that. Is she afraid you were married before and aren’t telling her about it? Sounds like she’s a snoop! It’s not illegal to snoop through your drawers either when you’re not there, but that doesn’t mean you do it. It is kind of an invasion of privacy whether or not they are there for the public. But the fact that you are so upset about it indicates there may have been other things your girlfriend has done that show a pattern of stuff like this? If this was an isolated incident, sure it’s a little weird, but could mean nothing.
F.W. posted: 07 Feb at 6:21 am
Is there a problem with her knowing that? she could just ask your mom and i’m sure your mom would tell her, right? I wouldn’t think it was a bad thing….
ranchgirl posted: 10 Feb at 12:07 am
That’s pretty messed up. If she found it on accident, that wouldn’t be wierd. But if she went on and looked. that’s a little nosy.
leahlovesspam posted: 11 Feb at 3:46 am
sure it is public record, but its still snooping, and an invasion of privacy.
I think you have a right to be upset about it.
I mean, what if she was looking up your parents mortgage history, or your credit history, and birth certificates etc.
I mean, they are public record, but I think its stepping over a line to go behinds some ones back to find personal information about them.
Yo’ Mama posted: 12 Feb at 7:42 pm
The question is why is she looking? Lots of things are public record but that doesn’t make them her business. I’d be curious what her motives are. And why was she looking for your marriage records? She sounds insecure and/or nosy.
sugary yummy posted: 12 Feb at 11:46 pm
well if you are planing to make her a part of the family she needs to know everything about you.. she had every right to know everything about the guy she may spend the rest of her life
tinamia posted: 13 Feb at 6:24 pm
Your girl is a snoop and a stupid snoop at that! she has no business looking up info on your mother or anyone else in your family.On the other hand she has a right to know anything she wants to about you.She is not going out with your mother she is going out with you.Be carefull this chick is TROUBLE! she is full of it if she thinks you should not have a problem with this,public records or not.and no this is not COOL!